How to know if you need marriage advice:
Short answer: you’re married..!
Putting all flippancy aside, marriage relationships are complex.
Long-term relationships, like those within most marriage unions, are bound to the couple’s history and are subject to each partner’s selective memory as a particular occasion calls for.
Despite our individual traits, and our learned coping skills, and our level of sophistication, love relationships always have volatile emotions, and heated thoughts, broiling under the outer surface of our demeanor…
Side Note: Handy website to find a local therapist: Find Professional Marriage Advice Locally
Before we continue our personal discussion, you may want to watch the following short video about marital conflicts and how to cope, or deal, with them:
In our culture, the average person dislikes having confrontations, especially with loved ones we’ve chosen to live with. Therefore, many of us will hide, and defer, our negative feelings on a regular basis. Yet, there comes a moment of fear, which is anger turned outwards, that triggers our pent-up emotions.
And, we’re likely to explode…
You, or your partner, can go from being a cuddly ‘teddy bear’ to acting like a fearsome, life-sucking ogre in seconds. Discounting these examples of extreme situations, how then, do you know when you need marriage advice?
Here are some clues:
- Are you struggling to stay married, worried that your relationship may be headed for trouble?
- Are you faced with the looming prospect of divorce?
- Does your spouse think your marriage is hopeless. . . and you mostly agree?
- Do you find yourself having the same issues over and over, unable to break out of the painful patterns?
- Or are you trying to make sure you have the best information to keep your marriage on-track?
- Or are you preparing for marriage and want to get started on the best possible footing?
- Or are you in a committed relationship, contemplating marriage, but want to know what makes a marriage work?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, you probably need marriage advice.
Unfortunately not all marital advice is equal. The truth is, the wrong advice can do more harm to your relationship, than good. See post: Online Marriage Counseling Can Save Marriages
When you need marriage advice though, you’d be wise to take counsel from a relationship professional who already has a proven track record of helping other people like you. Dr. Lee H. Baucom, is someone who has already helped thousands of people who were suffering many different, but serious marital and relationship problems.
Dr. Naucom’s experience gained from working successfully with many other couples could help you, too. One way he could help you right now, is with his newly released fast action relationship | couples marriage course called: The Secret Of Marriage
If you need marriage advice now, Dr. Baucom’s new program may be just the ticket to help you right away.
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Good luck and all our best…
Marriage Without Divorce Staff
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